It Is Okay To Be Late In Relationship and Marriage
Jul 22, 2026
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It is so important to be in a relationship and learn. I always say please break a thousand courtships if you see red flags early because I know how it feels to live in an abusive marriage then it breaks. It hurts.
I talk to the clergy. Men and women of GOD with all due respect allow those in relationships and are planning to get married in church a room to part ways early enough if the relationship becomes sour.
A courtship where you are solving problems and looking for solutions every day, every week or every fortnight, is an indication that once they do get into the marriage you will get tired of their phone calls and solving cases daily. Let's get solutions early. GOD speaks in many ways. A rib(partner ) that pierces you in courtship will leave indelible heartaches in the life of your spiritual son/daughter.
Dear friend if you have seen red flags in relationship please walk away before you start living and say you will pray and see if it will work. I will not join you in that prayer request when you have seen red flags. I will pray with you once you are out of danger. As you continue trying to see if it will work ,Heartaches will be your portion though not GOD'S intention.
It is okay sometimes to be late in relationships no one has ever gotten a medal for starting relationship Early. Just be you
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